So you just got a pretty female number and can’t wait to call her, but you wait a couple of days to call because you don’t want to seem thirsty. You finally give her a call or text, and she responds with some dumb shit like……
Who is this? 
This is the first sign that you have no chance. Now I do realize a lot of females get approached every minute and every day by dudes. Most females give their number out to every guy who talks to them, is most likely a hoe or playing games. Hate to put it that way but you think about it and tell me if I’m lying. Either or, your chances decrease in this scenario. Most chicks of decent character are more selective about who they talk with. So odds are, she probably has an idea of who you are. It just might be a case that you took a while to call and she doesn’t know who the hell you are. That’s fair; but like I said some females don’t pass their number around like a promo flier; so she knows what’s up. Sometimes this question could be just a quick confirmation that it is you. That is fair and understandable, but then if she hit you with some more bullshit like……
Where I meet you at?
This is the second sign that you are done. And now you thinking like… bitch how many dudes have you talked to in three days? Truth is, she may have been to a couple of parties over the weekend and doesn’t remember where she met you at. That’s fair. But this also could mean you didn’t stick out in her mind when you guys met. Regardless, you are fighting an uphill battle trying to first distinguish yourself and second trying to get her interested. I found out that females who are interested in you are just as eager to receive your call as you are to call. She knows who you are and where you met because she was interested. But let’s say you take her word and believe that she was drunk, the party was dark and she just doesn’t remember. Because of this, she asks you……
Send her a picture.
This is where the undertaker has your hole dug and just waiting on you to drop. I don’t care what the circumstances are this is not a favorable move for the man. It looks desperate and is a confirmation that she is just playing games. How the hell did she just meet you and forgot how you look? Makes no sense. The thing is, if she has forgotten your visual but is interested, then she will still meet you. Maybe somewhere not that intimate so she sees you and feels you out. She knows she doesn’t give her number to anyone and will give you the benefit of the doubt. After that, it is up to you to make your presence known when you guys meet. The bottom line is you just want a fair shot. Most men just want the opportunity; that’s it. However, that opportunity will never happen if you hear this last comment from a female…
Let me call you right back.
Is the kiss of death statement that you get from a female you just met. If you went through the first three steps with her and got to this point, then you “dead”. If you didn’t go through the first three steps and she tells you this right out the gate; then you are still dead. This is the worst thing you can hear from a female on the first call. Now keep in mind; I’m not talking about after you have talked for a few minutes. I’m talking about when she says within the first minute of the call. I’m talking about it after she asks who is this; you reply and then she says let me call you right back. There is a 90% chance that you will never hear from this girl again! If you do talk to her; it is probably because you called her and just ignored that she said she was going to call you back. That type of behavior might land you on the block list.
The bottom line is that some women admire and appreciate the effort when a man pursues her. Giving out her phone number is a consolation prize for his effort. Some women just like the attention of dudes chasing after them. It gives them confidence and self-worth that they may not receive from their companion. Other instances might be a case of a woman who doesn’t get approach a lot. The flattery may her feel obligated to give you her number. And then there are some women who give you their number, just so you can leave her alone. Either way, you have to realize when you don’t have a chance. Because your lack of awareness can make you look like an idiot. And nobody wants to look like an idiot.
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