Thick women with little outfits dancing with other women
You came to the club to dance in the middle of the floor with your friend all night. When you go to the restroom, you all are holding hands and rebuffing every dude’s attempt to talk to you while you are in the club. Is this what you wore this outfit for? Yeah sure, you can wear what you want. Of course, you don’t have to talk to anyone. These things are your prerogative. I’m just tired of seeing it. Do understand, frustration is one of the factors contributing to my writing this. Therefore logic and reasoning have been tossed out the window. I am not trying to understand why you are seeking attention, only to reject it when it comes to you.
Women who ask you to buy a drink for them or their friends because it’s their birthday!
Almost guaranteed to find some chick in the club who says it is her birthday and would you buy her a drink. There were three chicks next to me with no drinks, just standing there. As soon as I said something to them; one of them replied: “It’s my friend’s birthday, you should buy her a drink.” Why come to a party with no money? Male or female; you should always have something to spend when you go out. Just like females don’t like a broke dude; men don’t like broke women.
The dude in VIP with bottle service dancing by himself with a bottle in his hand
Just like women seek attention; niggas do the same. There is always one dude in the so-called VIP section with bottle service and a couple of women around. That dude was standing right behind me the other night. It is not that this person does anything to bother me. It’s just that the atmosphere of the club can be a circus sometimes and he is one of the clowns.
The dude who is trying to talk to all the women
After a couple of drinks; I become this person. It’s easy for me to say I just become more social within a social setting. However, I cannot rationalize this behavior just being at a club. This is a direct response to having a drink or two and looking at beautiful women all night. It probably is simpler to talk to one or two women and be content. But when the night drags on; the worst becomes the first. As they say, the thirst becomes real. This is another reason I’m tired of clubs; the older you get, the more pathetic it looks chasing women into the wee hours of the night.
Overall I don’t want to blame my growing disdain for clubs on age. My resistance is not me being in denial but more of me being aware of what I like. I never was a big club person, even though I have had some memorable times there over the years. I just think after a while, it becomes tired going through the same routine, especially around the same people. What do you think about the club/bar experience? Do you still enjoy going out? Leave your comments below