Pimp Chronicles by Bear Grizzly: Money, Power & Respect

When a man does have his stuff together, and is on top of his game, he puts himself in a unique mating position. A lot of dating complications associated with a lack of resources are eliminated. I once was seeing a girl who summed up her dating process to me like this. “If he spends money and takes me out enough; then I will give him some.”

Some may think that’s shallow and a little bit on the gold digger side. But I thought she was direct, honest, and beautiful. Perhaps I was biased but I thought she gave a synopsis of the dating process in general. The bottom line is we all need money. Financial independence gives you more confidence and swagger. Obviously, for men, it puts us in a position to care for our wives and children. For women, it increases respect and decreases expectations.

Those expectations include “putting out” because he has spent a certain amount of money or feeling inferior due to financial inequality. Women who rely on their physical attributes to get a man with money sometimes refer to their selves as “bad bitches.” But a lot of these so-called bad bitches be dating and screwing but don’t be getting ‘wife’d up.’ The slick brothers who are educated with money want someone to complement their stature with not only looks but also achievement.

I would like to think that for most adults this stuff is common sense. Then I noticed that common sense ain’t all that common. The norm is for individuals to invest time and interest with another individual who is not on the same platform of thinking. Women sometimes grab onto what looks good right now and do not analyze how their current situation may translate to the future. Men sometimes grab onto physical attributes without analyzing how her character and ambition may translate to the future.

I just see a lot of women raising kids on their own and a lot of dudes with appointments to the child support court. You should recognize the financial value associated with your intent and assess if it is attainable. There is nothing wrong with selecting a mate based on their financial status, especially if you bring something to the table. I know people who date in this manner, but some of them remain single. It is important to have discretion and to be reasonable and realistic.

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