I remember asking this one chick to hang out with me. I told her we can go and get some ice cream, coffee, you know do something simple. She told me: “I want to go out on a real date.” I was thinking to myself: “What the hell is a real date?”
Truth be told, some women are going out, just to be going out. I was watching this video that said 1/3 of women have been out just to get a free meal.
They have no interest in you, but may be bored, or want to try a new restaurant and figure why not? By the same token, there are some men out here who have no interest in the women they go out with. They might be bored, or just trying to get some ass. I have heard women say the dating experience is worse for them based on time wasted on men “who ain’t on nothing.” Time is a commodity that you can’t get back and no one wants their time wasted.
In the end, what I realized is that dating is like investing in the stock market. A smart investor will learn something about the product or company before putting their money into it. The stock may go up or down but at least you are more knowledgeable about what you getting into before taking the risk. Therefore, my advice is to do less dating and more communicating.
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Man what did I tell you Bro you don’t find A wife dating chicks. You find A wife when your not looking for A lady. I’ve been with my wife for 35 yrs and I never dated her I’m serious I found her while dating other chicks and with my concept of WOMENS I always had A $100 limit. I’d go out with chicks and it’s on them how fast they get to $100 dollars of my money spent. We don’t get to go to $101 ever If 1 Benjamin ain’t enough spent then she’s best to get A baker if she likes playing with niggaz dough. I met my wife in the projects in Chicago. She wasn’t high maintenance or A money grabber. She came from A two parent home and her Mom had died A few years earlier. I met her when I took my boy home from work to the projects. He got out the car and I said to him dude who that chick over there and he said my sister. I said to myself I have to introduce myself. So I did and I left but I came back latter and hollered at her and she said man do you know where you at I said yea in the “Hole” that’s what they called those projects on 5400 to 5100 on Federal. She said let me walk you out of here I said I ain’t scared she said I know that because you came up in here by yourself. So she walked me out and the next time I kicked it with her I was out partying with my boy and his chick & that nigga said “Spoon” you ain’t got know hoes I told him I know I don’t but I got A lady. He said right it was about 5 AM and he said prove it. I said at 5 AM you wanna call A “HUMBLE” on me I told him what’s the split. He said if you got A lady call her up and get her to fix us breakfast. I told him I don’t have to call I just have to show up. So we just went to the crib, my lady’s house and I went in and said honey could you fix us some breakfast she said sure, have A seat. My boy was looking stupid because he put the challenge on the table for something he couldn’t get done for himself. I knew that because his chick was with us I never told him get your chick to cook us some breakfast he’ll she right here with us. But naw I had to show him the difference between A lady and A hoe. We ate breakfast without no arguments she didn’t asked where I was coming from or where I had been till 5 Am in the morning all she said was did y’all get enough to eat. I’m still with this women today and been locked in with her since 1985 My boy got married too but it didn’t last A year. Loyalty & Commitment are the fabric of A good marriage love come naturally. You always find the things you want in pretense of not looking. Search for Jesus and he’ll send you the right lady to marry.
Have A good one Bro hit me up I’m going to Chi on the weekend