Women Can’t Handle the Truth

Women get upset when men give them a perspective they hoped was wrong

You might have given it up too quickly. You might have called a dude an hour after getting his number. Maybe you had sex with 5 dudes in one night, put it on camera, and posted it to your Tumblr account. For whatever reason, you may think these actions shouldn’t make you any less appealing to men, yet when a man tells you either face to face, during a happy hour, or in blog comments that he would never date a woman like that, you get mad! It’s like your worries were confirmed and now you lash out! Yes, those examples were extreme, but think of the woman who asks her boyfriend if she’s fat. When he confirms, he’s the @sshole right? That’s so wack to me!

Listen ladies, there are HELLA dudes out here who are hittin you with more G than a little bit. They’re gonna lie man they really don’t care, they’ll tell you women whatever you wanna hear! You should respect the fact that real dudes will tell you what men are thinking and why they have that perspective. If you want to converse and try to find middle ground, then great! However, to sit and deny that there may be truth and logical standing for his theorems is being childish and naive.

In closing, communication is a two-way street. Don’t demonize men because we have an opinion or our point of view on things. When you have an opportunity to pick a man’s brain, especially if he’s a friend, your brother, your father, or even a random blogger like myself, those dudes will tell you the real because there’s no vested interest for them, as opposed to dudes you date/smash.  Sometimes, well most of the time the truth hurts. The question you have to ask yourself is “does ignorance and naivety hurt more?”

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Article Appeared @http://www.singleblackmale.org/2011/01/12/women-cant-handle-the-truth/

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