And if you haven’t already, Thompson says, this is the time to ask yourself a few questions. For instance, if you have a boyfriend or girlfriend with a gambling or shopping problem, is that a problem for you, and how are you prepared to live with that?
Some other good questions, offers Rhoades: “What kind of lifestyle do you see us living, and how much will it cost? What is your approach to saving and investing? Meaning, how important is saving for retirement? Our children’s college? Are you a risk-taker?”
The point of asking a lot of questions isn’t to map out your entire marriage, but to see if you both truly are financially compatible, or if you’re actually two future clients for divorce lawyers. In fact, if you’re marrying, Ulin suggests that in the months before you say, “I do,” the most important person you should consult with as a couple isn’t the wedding planner – it’s a financial planner.
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